Did you use Ky jelly when you lost your virginity?

If not, why not! The wetter he is and you are the easier it is for him to . Also the more lubricated you are the less pain you are likely to feel. Go slow, use lots of lube,and relax. Surely those are the rules anybody should use? One last thing, women, have you had an ? Have you tried playing with yourself while he s from behind? What works for you?