Today I tried talking to my boyfriend about how I would like to have a little more frequently...?

and he told me he didn't know why I wanted to do it so much anyhow because I never have an anyhow. He also told me that taking about it is counter-productive for me as it does not accomplish what I want. When I asked him how I should be approaching it, he told me that he didn't know. We have maybe, once a week and sometimes not that often. He says I put too much pressure on it so I don't bring it up for weeks and when I do, he gets angry. I've asked him to try kissing me on the lips on or my neck to warm me up and he never bothers to try to . I honestly don't think he is cheating on me because he is always home and it's been like this for months. I love him but I am getting bored and very ually frustrated and I'm starting to feel resentful all the time. We've only been together a little over a year and we're in our mid-20's. Guys... can you offer any suggestions about what I should be doing differently? I don't know if it's okay for me to stand up for myself or if I am expecting too much?